When I was in college a lifetime ago, one of the fad psychology trends was centering. Gurus offered seminars and even classes on centering. Of course I took one. Could not resist. So the basic idea was to think your way through the clutter of life, you had to peel back the chaos and confusion and focus on the most important thing: you. And now, 45 years later, I think they almost got it right. All that needs to change is the focus. To focus on self only leads to disappointment and selfishness. And really, how many times does Jesus tell us to focus on ourselves? In reality, there are at least three better things on which we could center.
1. Center on someone else or some other group of people. What do they need? How can I serve her? What is on his mind? Jesus does say, “love your neighbor.”
2. Center on caring for the planet, the seas and the rivers, the beasts of the fields and the birds of the air. The Bible does say God gave us dominion over the planet.
3. Center on Jesus and ask yourself, “Jesus what would you have me do? Or better, who would you have me become?”
All three options are far better than the fad os self-fulfilment through self centering. There is, though, a valuable lesson from the centering fad. To center, we need to eliminate as much of life as is causing the chaos and find what brings order and purpose. To do that, we need to simplify mind and garage, calendar and wallet. And it is not enough to know we need to do this; we then need to do it. At first others will come up against the desire to change. People do not like change. They want to keep stuff, spend money on self, occupy every minute on self satisfaction. In short, they may seem a bit uncooperative. So invite them along. Start with you and invite others to lead a more simple life.
One of the leadership principles I have learned over the years is that when things get a little crazy, just simplify and focus of what you do well and what is most important. I have enacted this principle many times in my personal and professional life. It works. I have simplified the stuff I own; cut down on my calendar appointments; had my children “just pick one thing to do;” eliminated my entire reading list except the Bible; gotten up three hours earlier than normal just to do the one thing that matters most, pray. Like many, I sense a bit of out of control around me, politics have reached a level of negative exhaustion; the changes have pushed us to realize America is becoming an unchurched nation, even moving toward a faithless nation. So I am responding as I have always responded to chaos…zoom in on what is most important, emphasize the critical and celebrate what is working.
To this end, we are beginning our “red-letter study” December 2 so we can zoom in on what Jesus teaches and does. This is not to say the rest of the Bible is less important, just to acknowledge that Christians should know what Jesus says about being a Christian. A red-letter Bible simply puts the words Jesus says in red letters. I use a New International Version study Bible for worship on Sundays. I want to encourage everyone to bring your Bibles with you to church every week. Genuine learning means we take what we heard and read and put it into practice until it becomes an integral part of living. We forget most of what we learned in college because we never put the lessons into practice. So I invite you to church. Bring your Bibles. Come ready to listen and to learn.
After a wonderful Veteran’s Day celebration in church Sunday we got to have a pot-luck dinner. Boy those are really good. I remember as a kid growing up how much I liked those. Good memories. And there were lots of children who joined us for the festivities. Thank you to all who made that possible, to the kitchen staff, those who set up, cleaned up, and everyone who made something for us. Great memories for us and for all the children who were there. In our work for the Lord, it is important for us to remember that the memories we create for one another at Wesley become the memories God uses in the life of a child 30 years from now. What we are doing matters. God is watching Wesley and I can confidently say He is smiling. Well done church!
“No one lights a lamp and hides it in a jar or puts it under a bed. Instead, he puts it on a stand, so that those who come in can see the light.” Luke 8:16 We who have come to know Jesus have been given the gift of light in our souls. When all around seems like it is dark and difficult, we are the messengers of hope and peace and joy. At times we are called to choose this and willfully battle the forces that bring despair and defeat. Other times hope comes to us as a great gift and we simply respond with thanksgiving. When those around us face difficult time, BE THE HOPE. As I shared Sunday, recently my family has again been tormented with physical ailments, one after another. And our response, :Change the station. Put on a Hallmark Christmas movie, bake some chocolate chip cookies, change the depressing music, do not even look at the negative campaign ads. Be the hope for each other. You really never know what people are facing in life. I have noticed that fewer and fewer people make eye contact in public. Even fewer have anything to say to strangers. Perhaps the world is just waiting for God’s people to BE THE HOPE. Come to church this week and hear how God is working here at Wesley and hope is being spread. THe harvest is plentiful!
I am excited to be sharing with the congregation our “Red Letter Study.” We will begin with Luke, move thru Acts and finish with Revelation. The plan is to look at all of the things Jesus actually said so that we know His teaching. This will take a while to accomplish. I am encouraging everyone to purchase a red letter Bible or get one as a Christmas gift. We will have a case available for purchase starting in December. In a world where the truth seems to be whatever the loudest voice says it is, it is important that as Christians we actually know what Jesus said and try to orient our lives around that teaching. Luke is the perfect place to begin as the gospel of Jesus is propelled to all the nations and salvation made available to all. I want to encourage you to be a vital part of this study. Many of the Real Life Groups will be following the series, so get involved. Give your soul a chance to really know the voice of the savior.
The two secrets of the parables in Matthew are no longer a secret for us. Jesus is the messiah who dies on the cross for the forgiveness of our sin so that we might have everlasting life. This is the central message of all Christians and all of Christianity and it is the only message that matters eternally. We all need to make a decision about Jesus. Why do people have such a hard time really believing this? And I sometimes wonder why people think they can pretend they believe when they know they do not. Why do that? If it is more important to coach baseball, make money, or sip a margarita than it is to humble yourself to the Lordship of Christ, then why show up once in a while? What is the gain in worshipping two or three times a year? Perhaps the second part of the secret of the parables speaks to this. The messiah is coming back to collect what is His. When He comes, there will be a great separation, a discerning that only Jesus can make. For those who willingly asked God to change them and sought transformation into the likeness of the savior, there awaits a great banquet and a celebration of a soul once lost that found its way home. And quite honestly, for those who spent life running after personal gratification and seeking the rewards of this world, they will have already achieved all they can. There is no more. Jesus says, “I never knew you.” And He shuts the door. The pleasures of this world are indeed attractive and ever so appealing to the short term thinker. Deep inside though, we all recognize that eternity is real and Jesus speaks the truth. Somehow many have allowed their soul to become clouded into thinking an occasional showing up or a check once in a while will appease their guilt before God. Jesus says it does not. The only thing that saves us is that we know HIs voice, we have a relationship with Him. We hear HIs voice and acknowledge HIm as Lord and savior and dedicate our lives to serving Him. If you do not know Jesus as Lord, I invite you to ask Him to make a home in your life. Seek Him; He has been waiting for you to come to your senses. FInd like minded Christians and take this journey to eternity with them.
~Grace & Peace~
It is always a wonderful joy to share in the lives of those who get baptized. This past Sunday, we had a wonderful chance to experience all that we have been learning in church when we got to share in the baptism of both a baby and an adult. As a community of faith there is no greater expression of our salvation than baptism. Our corporate expression for both a baby and an adult affirms our belief that salvation is a gift from God, a result of a decision God made on our behalf before the creation of the world. Paul says to the Ephesian church “By grace you have been saved through faith. It is a gift from God not as a result of works lest anyone should boast.” Ephesians 2:8 The two sacraments we celebrate, baptism and communion, are the greatest reminders God gives us of His love and our gift of salvation through the sacrifice Jesus makes on the cross. I am so glad so many stayed for the celebration of baptism.
There are so many good things happening at Wesley and we are excited to share the good work of God here. On November 11 we will have one worship service of celebration at 11:15, sing some patriotic songs and hear testimonies from several folks whose lives are being changed by God. After church we plan to have a fellowship dinner, a main dish and drinks will be provided and everyone bring something to share: side dishes, salads and especially desserts. After lunch, pastor Ernie will continue the celebration with a future looking devotion and a presentation of the primary challenges we face moving forward. Everyone please plan to attend. Child care will be available. The Apostle Paul tells the great church at Philippi, “I am confident of this: he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Jesus Christ.” The other day I was sitting on the sanctuary and contemplating just how many lives God has touched here at Wesley in the last fifty plus years. It is a bit humbling to know that now we have been given the baton and it is our turn to run the race. We have the joy of creating a place where lives can turn to Jesus and find hope and healing. I am just as confident as Paul that God will finish what he started here at Wesley all those years ago. Let’s celebrate together!
From the final chapter of Admiral William H. McRaven’s MAKE YOUR BED: Never, ever quit.
“If you fill your days with pity, sorrowful for the way you have been treated, bemoaning your lot in life, blaming your circumstances on someone or something else, then life will be long and hard. If on the other hand, you refuse to give up on your dreams, stand tall and strong against the odds–then life will be what you make of it–and you can make it great. Never, ever ring the bell! There is no question life is full of difficult times for all of us. We all experience our own share of sorrow, loss, sickness. Only those who walk thru their adversity with heads held high find the green pastures on the other side of the valley. A while back we shared in the 23rd Psalm together and a memorable lesson was “Just Keep Walking.” It is God’s honor to lead us to green pastures and still waters. Sometimes to get there the only way is through the valley of the shadow. We just never ever stop walking. Trust in the Lord friends. Trust in Him.
When we were studying Philippians together, we talked about how the church started. Paul and Silas in prison singing together became a witness to the community and to the men about the absolute faithfulness of God. It gave everyone hope. In chapter nine of his book MAKE YOUR BED, Admiral Mcraven says, “We will find ourselves neck deep in mud someday. That is the time to sing loudly, to smile broadly, to lift up those around you and give them hope that tomorrow will be a better day.” So well said and excellent spiritual advice for any who feel life is a bit unfair. Just start singing anyway.